My view of my self worth has been very low recently. I hadn’t actually realised it until today when I read the following message I received this morning from Abraham:
‘Worthiness, in very simple terms, means I have found a way to let the Energy reach me, the Energy that is natural, reach me. Worthiness, or unworthiness, is something that is pronounced upon you by you. You are the only one that can deem yourself worthy or unworthy. You are the only one who can love yourself into a state of allowing, or hate yourself in a state of disallowing. There is not something wrong with you, nor is there something wrong with one who is not loving you. You are all just, in the moment, practicing the art of not allowing, or the art of resisting.’
I was indeed practising the art of not allowing – not allowing myself to receive the abundance that I so truly deserve. Somehow I had become blocked and was feeling that I was not at all worthy. My skills were of no use to anyone and therefore nobody new would be coming to me for coaching.
Fortunately, this missive from Abraham resonated with me on many levels. It made me remember just how self destructive negative thinking can be. I know this is true, but I am just as liable to negative thoughts as anyone else, although I do endeavour to keep thinking positively as it benefits me, and my clients, so much more.
I thought about this for a little while and it came to me that I have not been giving myself the recognition that I so richly deserve. I have been hiding my light under a bushel and that is now going to stop. It also made me stop and think about how I felt going through divorce. I felt even worse then, I had no self esteem or feelings or self worth. I thought I would never be able to hold my head up again, let alone change my life. But I did change my life and the way I see myself and it has made such a huge difference to my life.
I work with fabulous coaches who love and support me, teach and coach me, learn from me and are coached by me. I have so much to offer my current and potential clients and my passion is in coaching people to become who they really are.
With modern technology anyone in the world can access coaching via Skype, phone, instant messaging and so many other ways.
My own self worth has increased dramatically since I began writing this blog and will continue to do so, especially as I remind myself of all my successes. That doesn’t mean I have a big head, I don’t, I know my own self worth and I am proud of it. I am worthy and I shall not be wasting my time or energy on negativity any longer.
I have some availability for coaching clients, we just need to fix some dates if and when you want to get started. Get in touch today.
Creedence – Confidence for You
International Confidence Coach, Motivational Speaker, Author