In the continuing journey of building confidence it is essential that you implement your assertive rights so that your life is as happy as it can be.
I have included your assertive rights below, and I would like you to read them and be aware that you do have the right to implement them, no matter what other people think.
- I have the right to judge my own behaviour, thoughts and emotions and to take the responsibility for their initiation and consequences upon myself.
- I have the right to offer no reasons or excuses to justify my behaviour.
- I have the right to judge whether I am responsible for finding solutions to other people’s problems.
- I have the right to change my mind.
- I have the right to make mistakes and be responsible for them.
- I have the right to say “I don’t know”.
- I have the right to be independent of the goodwill of others before coping with them.
- I have the right to be illogical in making decisions.
- I have the right to say “I don’t understand”.
- I have the right to say “I don’t care”.
I have the right to say “No”.
When you read and absorb these assertive rights and then begin to implement them in your daily life you will notice the difference. Don’t think that other people won’t notice, they will, and they will probably be surprised. So what?
Let them get over it and continue to assert your rights on a daily basis. It will increase your confidence and reduce the risk of you being treated as a doormat who always says yes or agrees with everything everybody else says or does.
Your life will improve, and you will boost your confidence by implementing your assertive rights on a regular basis.
Creedence – Confidence for You
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International Confidence Coach, Motivational Speaker, Author