I have found that being grateful for what I do have far outweighs worrying about what I don’t have. This philosophy works on so many levels for me and it can work for you too.
When I decided to leave my marriage of 12 years (30 years ago), I was full of worry about what I didn’t have at that time, how I would manage, how I would survive etc. I spent so long worrying about what I didn’t have and desiring all the things that I thought I did want, that I forgot to live as me. I forgot all about me. And because of that I had to hit rock bottom before I realised that I could do something about my life.
At that time I didn’t know anything different. I had never heard of self-development, nor had I heard of life coaches who could have helped me.
Now, of course, I know differently and I always put into practice my own teachings. I am grateful every day for all that I have, the abundance in my life. Abundance in life, such as the wonderful area I live in, the friends I have, the trust and love of my husband, the work that I do and the lovely clients who I help daily.
Had I known about how to be grateful for what I had way back then I would probably have coped a whole lot better. I may not have hit rock bottom, I may have lived my life differently. I shall never know now, but it doesn’t matter. I am living the life that I love, working with people every day who benefit from my learning and teaching. I am determined that nobody should have to reach the depths that I did before they change their lives for the better.
Today I am grateful for the smallest things as well as the huge things. I am grateful for the sunshine today, for the little flowers popping their heads over the window box, the little birds singing, the sea, the green fields and so much more.
If you are going through a life trauma, it may help you to think about all the things you can be grateful for. The little tiny things that come in large numbers. They may just bring a smile on a dismal day and help you get through.
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Creedence – Confidence for You
International Confidence Coach, Motivational Speaker, Author